A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration.
All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. All had a wonderful time. The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.
幸福的婚姻
A few months later, the wife came to the husband with a proposal, "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage," she offered. "Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."
The husband agreed. So each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with. The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists.
"I'll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it, enough to fill three pages. In fact, as she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husband's eyes.
"What's wrong?" she asked. "Nothing," the husband replied, "keep reading your list."
The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over the top of it.
"Now, you read your list and then we'll talk about the things on both of our lists," she said happily.
Quietly the husband stated, "I don't have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don't want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn't want to try and change anything about you." The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.
In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don't really have to go looking for them. We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise. Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?
生活中有許多幸福的片斷，只是我們經(jīng)常忽視。兩個(gè)人的相處需要無(wú)盡的包容，當(dāng)生氣的時(shí)候，多想想對(duì)方的好，想想幸福的點(diǎn)滴，一切困難都算不了什么。
一個(gè)男人和他的女朋友結(jié)婚，舉行了一場(chǎng)盛大的結(jié)婚慶典。
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所有的朋友和家人都來(lái)到結(jié)婚典禮上參加歡宴和慶祝活動(dòng)。大家都過(guò)得很開(kāi)心。穿著白色婚紗的新娘漂亮迷人，穿著黑色禮服的新郎英俊瀟灑。每個(gè)人都能看出他們彼此的愛(ài)是真誠(chéng)的。
幾個(gè)月后，妻子走近丈夫提議說(shuō)：“我剛才在雜志上看到一篇文章，說(shuō)的是怎樣鞏固婚姻。”她說(shuō)：“我們兩個(gè)人都各自把對(duì)方的小毛病列在一張紙上，然后我們商量一下怎樣解決，以使我們的生活更幸福。”
丈夫同意了。于是他們各自走向不同的房間去想對(duì)方的缺點(diǎn)。那一天余下的時(shí)間里，他們都在思考這個(gè)問(wèn)題，并且把他們想到的都寫下來(lái)。第二天早上，吃早飯的時(shí)候，他們決定談?wù)劚舜说娜秉c(diǎn)。
“我先開(kāi)始吧。”妻子說(shuō)。她拿出她的單子，上面列舉了很多條，事實(shí)上，足足寫滿了三頁(yè)。當(dāng)她開(kāi)始念的時(shí)候，她注意到丈夫眼里含著淚花。
“怎么啦?”她問(wèn)。“沒(méi)什么，”丈夫答道，“繼續(xù)念吧。”
妻子又接著念。整整三頁(yè)都念完之后她把單子整齊地放在桌上，兩手交叉放在上面。
“現(xiàn)在該你念了，然后我們談?wù)勊信e的缺點(diǎn)。”她高興地說(shuō)。
丈夫平靜地說(shuō)：“我什么也沒(méi)寫，我覺(jué)得像你這樣就很完美了，我不想讓你為我改變什么。你很可愛(ài)迷人，我不想讓你改變。”妻子被丈夫的誠(chéng)實(shí)和對(duì)她深深的愛(ài)和接納感動(dòng)了，她轉(zhuǎn)過(guò)頭去哭起來(lái)。
生命中我們有很多的失望、沮喪和煩惱，我們根本不需要尋找。我們美妙的世界充滿了美麗、光明、希望。但是，當(dāng)我們放眼四周時(shí)，為什么浪費(fèi)時(shí)間尋找不快、失望和煩惱，而看不到我們面前的美好事物呢？
